Finally got the web server upgraded. Don’t really know what went wrong last night, pretty much repeated the same procedure but this time after I had finished the compile environment still worked so I was able to recompile apache2 and have it use the newer openssl 3.0.2.
So all of eskimo.com including friendica.eskimo.com, hubzilla.eskimo.com, and nextcloud.eskimo.com, and all the hosted websites are now running under Ubuntu 22.04.