Re: Unidentified subject!

Daniel Vachon (drv(AT)ici.net)
Sat, 12 Apr 1997 19:24:48 -0400 (EDT)

At 09:58 PM 4/10/97 -0500, you wrote:
>I was wondering what all of you do regarding personal care assistance. Do
>you have family members, PCA's, and / or nursing? We always discuss vent
>stuff but having personal care goes along with it. Do any of you live
>alone, with spouse, or with family?
>
>As for me I live with my boyfriend, he assists me alot with my personal
>care. I have another person that comes in twice a week to do house work,
>change vent tubes, etc. Just time for my boyfriend to be on his own.
>
>I hope you don't mind me asking.
>
>Jim, the check is in the mail!!! :)
>
>
>
>Always..
>Annette
>
>
Annette,

I also use Personal Care Attendants (PCAs). I live in NH and I am eligible
to receive 42 hours a week from our Independent Living Center and an
additional 68 hours a week from a Home Health Agency. I hire and train my
own PCAs. I live with my Mother, or as I like to say, she lives with me
(even though it's her house!). I chose to live at home because my Dad made
it completely accessible. We have a nice yard and it's located in a good
part of town. We share the expenses also.
It was a real Godsend when this state started providing PCA service in the
early '80s. Having PCAs gave me the freedom to run my own life. I have a van
so I can go wherever and whenever I want. I'm sure you know what it's like
having to rely on family members to do your personal care. No matter how
accommodating my parents were, I always felt I was imposing when I needed
assistance. Are you all familiar with the organization called ADAPT? They
are trying to establish a nation PCA program funded with Federal dollars.
They have a web site that has some great information. We should all be on
guard to ensure that PCA programs are not eliminated or cut back but they
should be expanded to every state and have uniform standards. Having PCAs
will keep many people out of nursing homes and lessen the burden on family
members.
Dan