Hi there..
I have "molled" over this post for a couple of days trying to figure out
what to say and how to say it. I decided that the best thing to do was to
just write from the "heart" about this issue, being a vent user myself.
I can't believe people that are supposed to be in the "Helping" profession
to people with disabilities feel this way. I know it is a free country and
everyone is entitled to their own opinions, but why be in the medical
profession if "you" feel that life is not worth living after a traumatic
injury?
This opinion whether your co-workers belive it or not, can come accross in
their interactions with the patients they rehabilitate every day. And
believe you me, that is the last thing an individual needs as they are
fighting for survival, when dealing with the transition of trying to adjust
to a wheelchair, vent, and the new adaptations for daily care, etc.
Probably more important than that, individuals are dealing with the
psychological aspects of their new found disabilility. The last thing they
need is someone with a negative attitude rehabilitating them. In all my 38
years of having a disability I have come accross medical professionals that
their "ignorance" or misinterpretation of disabilities do come accross in
their interactions.
I have had 3 respiratory arrests, which caused me during the last one, to
have a permanent trach and vent. If I or my parents listened to every word
of the medical community I would be dead. Some of the medical community
who believed life wouldn't be worth living or "quality" of life, wanted to
pull the plug on my vent, but my parents determination, (and mine) said no.
Life is what you make it...and until your medical co-horts are in the same
position, they will begin to think differently.
I commend you on your position, and "pity" the rest of the rehab staff. I
think you should print out all the responses you have gotten by vent users
to see that indeed life can be worth living.
Annette M. Hanna
nete1(AT)midwest.net