On Tue, 14 Oct 1997 22:29:38 -0400 (EDT) Cindysan13(AT)aol.com writes:
>In a message dated 97-10-14 12:52:41 EDT, AndreaSkin(AT)aol.com writes:
>
><< Well, as for now, I won't bother anyone anymore with my "crap". I
>won't
> answer neither a post, nor give one...obviously I am not quiet "up to
>par"
>in
> your eyes.
>
> Thanks anyway for all the support - or whatever you might call those
>nasty
> notes I've got...it REALLY HELPED A LOT!
>
> Andrea
>
> >>
>Oh No! I really hate to see this happen. Andrea, you need to
>ventilate
>your feelings. Your feelings are yours and anyone in your position
>would
>feel them, at least in the beginning and at some times.
>I admire the people on this list. They are living full lives and seem
>to be
>coping well. They support each other and understand each other.
>you have a different perspective than they do. I am a nurse that
>cares
>clients on vents. I also have a different perspective than the
>people on
>the list. We have not walked their walk. I am forever offending
>someone on
>the list, also and not meaning to.
>Frankly , in my own experiences ,I have found your anger much more
>common
>than their optimism. I wish I had clients with their attitudes. Anger
>and
>rage can get very wearing on everyone.
>I think it's great that Mandy is going trick or treat! What is really
>the
>difference if she rides or runs? ( I have often thought it would
>just be
>easier to just give my kids the candy I buy for the other trick or
>treaters........They seem to feel THAT WOULD MAKE A DIFFERENCE :)
>You need support not condemnation! You can e-mail privately if you
>wish. i
>hope you keep airing your feelings to some one who can take it. it
>doesn't
>sound like you have anyone like that now.
> I just have simple advice. Take all the pleasures that life has to
>offer
>and enjoy life to the fullest in the all the things you can. Turn
>your
>burden over to God. Don't let stupid people get under your skin.
>
>
>> You need to express your feelings, that is for sure!!!!!!!!!!!
>Cindy
>
>